Into 2026

Into 2026

2025 was a very challenging year.

It was difficult dealing with lots of health conditions. I continued to cope living with an anal fistula, caused by complications with my Crohn’s disease. I was also ill with colds, coughs, various bugs and other medical issues. I left lonely, anxious, doubted myself and cried many times in the toilet.

It was also a time filled with loss and grief. In February 2025, a close family friend passed away. He was a man filled with so much humour, wit and character. Then in December 2025, my uncle passed away. He was such a lovely man. He was one of the kindest, caring, generous people I have ever known. We will miss both of them. It is so important to cherish our loved ones, our friends, to hug them tight.

Nevertheless, there were some good moments in 2025. I spent valuable time with loved ones and friends playing games of pool, going to the cinema, visiting sky gardens and cat cafes. I continued to speak and share my poetry on the radio, especially on Mix 92.6. I was also fortunate to be able to travel to countries including Malta and Estonia to see beautiful lakes and colourful gardens.

The biggest highlight however was how my cousin became a father in September 2025 to a beautiful baby girl. She is the first baby in our family for twenty-six years. She is lively, cute and so precious. She brings so much joy. She has been the brightest light in the darkness. We are so grateful she is here and how she has brought so much love to our lives.

Resolutions For 2026

Like in previous years gone before, I am not going to set any concrete resolutions for 2026 as there always seems to be some form of expectation and pressure to achieve them. However like always I want to spend lots of time with the people who mean everything to me including the beautiful baby girl that has entered into our family’s life; to continue travelling to different countries around the world; to raise lots more awareness of what it is like to live with Crohn’s disease, dyspraxia, anxiety and depression; and to complete some more exciting challenges.

As ever, thank you so much for being there for me. It means so much. If I can help at least one person to feel less alone, then it is truly worth it. I hope you have an excellent 2026. Look after yourself and each other.

I hope you have an excellent 2026...Copyright © 2025 Jake Borrett. All rights reserved. 


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